Youth of America: Pull up your pants!
Today at the ball game this group of punks sat in front of me. First I had to help them find their seats because I think that had primed their livers before the game and could not read the row numbers on the aisle seats. There were people setting in their seats. They asked them to move, and the people moved but I think the people in the seats gave the punks a little guff about it. Instead of taking the high ground or even the just slightly aggressive ground, the punks chose the route of being, well, punks and tried to start something. Thankful I did not have to put the smack down on the group because the people in the seats moved on without responding.
It was a group of all guys and only one girl. The girl was with one of the guys. They were a walking public display of affection. She was not the type of girl that helps promote the image of women. The only thought that seemed to be in her head was, “Like, For Sure!” running in loop.
The group looked just under 21, but all of them passed the carding at the field. Ever time a beer man would go by there was a stop at their row. I am not discouraging anyone from drinking at the ball game, I had two, but it was the middle of the afternoon and these kids had at least 5 beers each. It became a bit of a joke with the two rows behind them. The disturbing part was the drunkest guy said something in part “…No! I am a great drunk driver. Shit the Kennedy, I have never been stopped…” I was glad that my mode of transportation was my two feet down Clark Street. During the whole game there were many yells from the group that are inappropriate to repeat. And I would not have blamed someone from St. Louis of coming down and smacking them in the head, because I had to resist the urge.
A report came out Friday of a survey conducted by the U of C about what age Americans consider others adults. The survey said that 26 has become the age of adulthood. This is much higher than previous generations who were adults raising families and buying homes at 18 and 20. As a 23 year old (minus 17 days) there are benchmarks of adulthood that I have not obtained yet like a wife, kids, and house. I think it is possible to be an adult without these things and it is possible to be an adult at 23. I have a degree and have started a career with a stable job with a leading consulting firm. I make sound financial decisions, paying off my car and education loans quickly while also saving. I am involved politically in my community and trying to become more involved. People do treat me different though, either because I look young or because I have a large beautiful red spot on my head. These punks I sat behind are part of the reason that I am still 3 years away from being an adult. They live life as though there is not a care in the world. Which I am sure is great for them, and at times I have been envious of that lifestyle, but as we approach Mothers Day I am very thankful of the way my lovely mother and grandmothers raised me. I pray that I never made them worry that I would turn into a punk, because I knew that this type of behavior would have found punishment (and probably still would today somehow) but I never would have thought of acting like this because they instilled in me that this is simply not what young men do. It is interesting being raised almost completely by your mother; it seems to me that I learned how to be a better man than most of the men I know that had fathers at home. Thank You Mom!